Of Baby Shower, Cupcakes and Gifts

Assalamualaikum,

Haven't been here for quite a while. Life is getting busier with me doing nothing other than attending to the endless business of thinking..of what should I do in future. Hahaha. Seems so membazir. Membazir masa betul lah hai.

Next year will be another year for UPSR and my favourite girl will be one of the candidates but i don't see why should i suddenly talk about it here. lol. distraction.

Actually, the real story is that recently...i attended one of my friend's baby shower. it was my first time, and also mizah's first time. so, we spent a great amount of time finding the perfect gift - as we called it - because we wanted it to be a healthy and beneficial investment for the future baby.So, off we went to midvalley. Mizah wasn't so well on that day tapi Alhamdulillah everything was okay. Kesian dia takut tetiba jatuh ke apa kan. I was worried. We ended up going to MPH and decided to buy a book for the baby. Tapi nak pilih buku pun was like foreverrr..hahaha.

So, finally we picked a book and Alhamdulillah, we were happy with our choice because the Umi-to-be was soooo happy when she unwrapped the gift. heheh. 

Syaf was telling us at her baby shower that there are 19 more days to go before she is expected to deliver. Tapi...Tapi.... Allah Maha Besar..after the baby shower, malam tu she messaged us and beritahu she had contractions already. maknanyaaa...baby will come out very very soon.

To me, the event and what happened after the event were all reminders from Allah that:

We can plan, but it is only Allah who has the power to make things happen.

Friends are for us to treasure. not for us to make enemies or cultivate negative feelings. 
Semua pun dah grown up, dah jadi adults..so there's no need to involve in unhealthy competitions anymore.

Love and care for one another is very much important. Because, without love, siapalah kita. Allah Maha Pengasih dan Maha Penyayang.. why not kita lembutkan hati untuk sayang manusia lain yang Allah cipta untuk jadi kawan-kawan kita..kan?

^_^ so..the baby  shower was nice, simple and sweet mainly because we were able to sit together like the old days and have a fun quick reunion.

Can't believe that one of us is already a mother. Who's next?

^_^ get well soon Inspektor Aisyah.    

Found It #2

When You Said It

Received 2 Years ago from a friend

When ALLAH drops needles along your path of life,

Do not step away.

Pick them up and collect them.

They are designed to teach you to be strong and wise.

ALLAH did not promise that life would be easy,

But HE did promise to be at your side as long as you want HIM to.

Fathi, I am here, just wanna let you know,

that,

You are one of the best friend I have ever had.

May ALLAH bless us.

Amin.

It was a wise decision when I decided to never let go of your hand.
I am blessed.

Random Thoughts (generated while doing Fiqh assignment)

30 October 2011

1.   Heheh. I know. Despite of having not enough time to finish my 15 pages long term paper, I still have the time to let my mind walk and stroll around somewhere I don’t even know where.

2.   I was feeling frustrated yesterday. Both of my beloved friends got infected with virus demam. I have a very strong feeling that it was me who spread the germs to them. 

(Penyebar Virus Bergerak: Anda, Anda dan Anda merupakan salah seorang daripada penjahat ini. Termasuk saya. Haih. Maafkan saya.)

3.   Doing Fiqh assignment is really testing my patience. My fever has now gone (I am very confident to say this eventhough I am not fully cured, yet. This is called as “Positive Thinking”. From my personal opinion, at least. Haha. Aku mahu sihat. Mengaku sihat walaupun suhu badan agak tinggi. Demam..pergilah jauh-jauh..tak larat dah ni nak tanggung kesakitan.)

4.   Muhammad Salih al-Munajjid is a very controversial scholar of our time. I am seriously having hard time writing about him. Silap pilih tajuk ni. Tapi tidak mengapa. Mencuba sesuatu yang menyumbangkan ilmu baru kepada kita bukanlah suatu kesalahan. Kontroversi itu ilmu. Ilmu itu menarik. Yeah.

31 October 2011

1.    A friend of mine sent a message to me:

“Anyway, take it easy. Don’t stress, not good for your health. Plus it’s all duniawi stuff. Do the best that you can.”

Thank you so much, friend. I do appreciate it. Tapi…hm..nevermind.

2.   Assignments are giving me a real headache. Want to know why I am stress? The answer is bad time management with a combination of terrible stress management. Okay. Now, tell me. Siapa yang tak stress tengok kawan baik sendiri tak layan anda bila berjumpa secara berdepan? Drama swasta berada di mana-mana dan pasti akan menyumbang kepada stress. Betul kan?

3.   Saya OK je. Ayat pertanyaan tadi cuma contoh semata.

4.   Soalan yang sama. Kenapa saya stress? Kerana saya penat dan ada banyak kerja. Saya tidak cukup tidur. Oleh itu, badan dan otak telah memberikan tindak balas yang amat hebat. Maka terhasillah stress dan juga penyakit tambahan seperti migraine dan demam panas.

5.   Maaf, teman. Jangan salahkan saya. Saya perlukan sokongan. Bukan kritikan.

6.   Adik-adik dan kawan-kawan yang disayangi Allah sekalian, jauhi sikap suka bertangguh. Ia memakan diri. I promised that you will suffer if you choose to procrastinate. I’ve been there. IT HURTS A LOT! Literally, I was hurting.

7.   Ujian adalah tarbiyah dari Allah. Apakah kita akan sama ataupun sebaliknya.

Jangan difikir derita akan berpanjangan. Harus ada rasa percaya.

Ya. Saya cuba untuk muhasabah diri. Agar tidak hanya memandang pada duniawi.

Back To Reality

I am now back.

The university has welcomed me with a happy face.

Meeting friends on the very first week of new semester has always been a very exciting moment.

Everyone is looking forward to that.

It was a bit awkward to meet the others again.

Mixtures of vibes are all around and it was giving me a tiny feeling of nervousness.

As usual...My panic attack came on the very first day.

I was panicking to meet my friends whom I have been longing for (erk..tu pun nak panic.parah.)

Here we go, my two lovely friends.

Both of them looked just fine.

And I was super relieved to know that they spent time together more often now. I do not mind that. Eventhough I felt a bit left out. The most important thing to me is to see both of them happy.

Their calm vibes made me feel at ease.

One of them though has a very hectic schedule. She looked as if she doesn’t sleep at all. And she looked exhausted. Her face was very pale and she kept on saying that she's too busy.

I was worried to see her like that. She's supposed to be happy and get enough sleep and also spend time eating good food.

I see red cheeks no more. She's very pale. Seriously, she has to relax a bit. I will make sure that I will always ask her to eat every time I meet her. That is the very small thing that I can do to help.

My other friend is looking just fine and I was surprised to see myself at last can look at her without any weird, heartbreaking and grumpy feelings.

She's so happy that her vibe made me feel okay whenever I see her.

Oh and we're very hyper in class. She called it as the art to survive. At least we don’t sleep during lectures. Haha.

Coming to the interesting part of my new semester, being friends with two beautiful, happy-go-lucky and COOL girls has never come across in my mind.

The days we spent together are always filled with laughter.

I laugh A LOT. They describe me as someone yang sangat geli hati. Ahaha. Oh, and that is a fact. Cannot deny the fact that, I laugh at almost everything. Ah, Gila.

When we are together, the three of us will always have our own evil plans.

Nobody knows how we are living our life so happily, having nothing to worry about. (Now, that’s a lie I think :P heh. We always worry about our assignments and how we are having not enough time to SLEEP. Lol.). Things are getting much better when I am with them.

I feel normal when I am with Lavender and Butterfly.

I feel strangely normal and normal and normal when I am with Kareena and Karisma.

Ahaha, now I am giving names to them. Well, they are nice names. Aren’t they?

It has now been the third week of our new semester.

I am hoping that this sem will end safely. I just want to be safe.

Selamat dan aman. Itu yang penting.

I will make sure that I will never cry of silly things this sem. Enough of being bullied.

Sekarang, aku sudah ada kuasa! Haha. Oh, thanks Kareena. You are really helping me out in chasing away the habit of not knowing how to say NO to people.

Stop being too nice, says I.

May Allah bless us all :)

Until next time, do smile and take care of yourself.

Fathi says, Thank You :)